Dear Jaymes and all my wards,
Someday, you will be old enough to understand the logic that motivates me as a parent and your guardian.
I loved you enough . . . to ask where you were going, with whom, and what time you would be home.
I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover that your new best friend was a creep.
I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your room, a job that should have taken 15 minutes.
I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment, and tears in my eyes. Children must learn that their parents aren't perfect.
I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your actions even when the penalties were so harsh, they almost broke my heart.
But most of all, I loved you enough to say NO when I knew you would hate me for it. Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm glad I won them, because in the end you won, too. And someday when your children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates parents, you will tell them.
My son and wards say I'm mean..... in fact I'm the meanest mother in the whole world! :)
When they become parents, they will know what's wrong with the world today.
It just doesn't have enough Mean Moms!
Someday, you will be old enough to understand the logic that motivates me as a parent and your guardian.
I loved you enough . . . to ask where you were going, with whom, and what time you would be home.
I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover that your new best friend was a creep.
I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your room, a job that should have taken 15 minutes.
I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment, and tears in my eyes. Children must learn that their parents aren't perfect.
I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your actions even when the penalties were so harsh, they almost broke my heart.
But most of all, I loved you enough to say NO when I knew you would hate me for it. Those were the most difficult battles of all. I'm glad I won them, because in the end you won, too. And someday when your children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates parents, you will tell them.
My son and wards say I'm mean..... in fact I'm the meanest mother in the whole world! :)
When they become parents, they will know what's wrong with the world today.
It just doesn't have enough Mean Moms!
Happy Mother's Day to all Moms!!
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Ah .. thanks for the reminder. Time to call home!
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happy mama's day ecl mama! dun be so mean la, at least for today. :P
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day! *hugs*
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ReplyDeleteThanks. :)
Cherish your Mom and spend more time with her. My Mom and mother-in-law are getting older and weaker each day, we dread to think of never spending Mother's Day with them.
Today we spent the morning with my Mom and the afternoon with my Mother-in-law. My son gets some time with me alone. A meaningful day for all of us..... looking forward to next year's. :)
Your the best Mother, I'm sure and it really shows in your post!
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day dear blogger friend!
RennyBA's Terella
Happy mother day ECL. I think I like the last one most - learn to say no to children. Otherwise when they get older, they would not know how to say no to others and to themselves.
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day, my friend.
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day.. ECL..!! and yer're not mean..!!!
ReplyDeletehaha.. when i was a small gurl, i oso used to *think* that my mom so mean.. but now, i constantly remind myself that she's not getting any younger... and that i must not do things or say things that might hurt her.. difficult at times, but the constant reminder at the back of my mind helps :)
ReplyDeleteglad you had a wonderful sunday! everyday should be mother & father's day! ;-)
hi ECL! thanks, and happy moms' day to you as well. loved your ws entry ;)
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's day! Your text really shows that every moment should really be a mom's day... and the photo is one of the evidence :-)
ReplyDeletegood post.
cheers
lol! happy mother's day ecl!
ReplyDeleteyes, the world lacks mean mothers, and fathers! haha
Powerful post. I am a "mean" Mom too. Parent's need too be firm and prepare their children for the real world. Always love them but teach them independence and strength and above all, respect. Happy Mother's Day!
ReplyDeleteGreat post ECL and Happy Mother's Day. Not only was I a mean mother, when I was a performer I used the name "Mean Mad Mamma" for my singer/songwriter act, and that's the truth, ha. Hope you've had a great day.
ReplyDeleteI hope you have a wonderful Mother's Day!
ReplyDeleteHow funny. That photo is priceless! Happy Mother's Day!
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day.
ReplyDeleteI'm happy for you to know that you have had a meaningful day yesterday with the people dear to you. :)
you?? the world's meanest mum? where did that even come from? i know u're one of the nicest ladies i've met!! :D thoughtful, happy and all!! esp your energy! hehe. :D
ReplyDeletehappy mum's dayyy!!!
I am sure that one day when Jaymes & your wards have their own family, they will appreciate your "meanness" :) Happy Mother's Day to you.
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Nice tribute.
ReplyDeleteHappy Ma Ma's Day!! :)
Err, do you any more room for 2 more young wards?!?!?
Renny,
ReplyDeleteawww.... Thanks. Happy Mother's Day to Diane!
Wind,
ReplyDeleteNot only to our kids, must learn to say NO when necessary... cannot be too nice. :)
rainbow angeles,
ReplyDeleteWhen we were younger, we tend to hurt our parents because we dun understand their love for us.
As a parent, I'm going through what they went through when I was their immature daughter then.
It should be mother's and father's day everyday! :)
Carver!
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine you as the Mean Bad Mama! hehehe....
ehon dear!
ReplyDeleteawww.... *hugs*
Thank you, boy. You sweet lil fella. hehe...
napaboaniya,
ReplyDeleteTrying to take the easy way out by 'out-sourcing' your kids ah! hahaha...
ecl,
ReplyDeleteI am sure Jaymes know all that!:)
Happy Mother's Day to you! You are one of the greatest moms out there!:)
Hope you had an enjoyable celebration yesterday :)
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day !
ReplyDeleteHappy be-lated Mother's Day!
ReplyDeletehappy mother's day to the meanest mom ever...and I mean that in a good way!
ReplyDeleteLOL.... perfect catch and nice post for WS! Hope you have a nice monday and a fresh start to your week! Mine's Up too hope you can drop by...
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day ECL! I like ur post, sometimes you have to be mean but that doesn't mean you don't sayang them yes? :)
ReplyDeleteYes one day they will understand. You have penned the thoughts so well.
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Mean ? I thought you are supposed to make your son kneel on durians shells - 跪地求饶 !!!
ReplyDeleteNo lah, you are not mean enough! :P
That's a lovely post, ECL, and so true!!
ReplyDeleteHope you had a wonderful Mother's Day
Cheers!!
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Haha, I want to be a mean mum in the future too!
ReplyDeleteHappy mama's day to you ECL!
Happy Mother's Day!
ReplyDeletejust visiting...you have a nice blog!
Good day to you! See yah around...
simpleyesa
Let's hear it for mean moms! Happy Day, and God bless.
ReplyDeletegreat post...LOL
ReplyDeletehappy mother's day.
Will you visit mine Thanks
nice shot ^__^ happy mother's day too.
ReplyDeleteMine in here Thanks
Happy Mother's day!! *hugs*
ReplyDeleteHaha, poor Jaymes!
ReplyDeleteHappy Mama's Day, ECL... Have pity! Have mercy!!
Oh thats poor James...hehehe..happy hunting!
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my daughter tell me I'm the meanest mommy too :(
ReplyDelete*sigh*
Happy mommy day
happy mother's day...the picture was so funny...
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happy WS!!
You are a great mom, ECL. Good mothers ALWAYS protect their children through teaching life's lessons.
ReplyDeletehahaha... too mean that is because of the bat in the photo. nice one.
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happy mother's day ECL!
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Fantastic post!! I agree with you so much! Your kids will thank you for it, and your grandkids too :-) A belated happy mothers day!
ReplyDeleteHope you had a fabulous Mother's Day, ECL!
ReplyDeletegreat words of wisdom !!!
ReplyDeleteI hope you had a fabulous day :)
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Haha. Yes, the world needs more mean mums like ECL!
ReplyDeleteBelated Happy Mother's Day ECL.
ReplyDeleteIt's a wonderful post highlighting a mother's kindness and concern.
Thanks for visiting. Sorry haven't visited in a while. My parents are here for a vacation and I've been spending a lot of quality time with them. I also missed a lot of memes recently. Take care!
Very well said. I've just wanted to tell my boy the same thing...
ReplyDeletewow...ECL...that is indeed the meanest mom I had ever seen....LOL
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day to you....
Hahaha... this is funny picture, but the reading was really cool. I guess the way children see their parents is just inevitable - always too strict. We've probably all been through that, and when we come out the other end as adults, we appreciate it.
ReplyDeleteHappy belated mothersday to you too ECL!!
I couldn't help but laugh at the picture :D
ReplyDeleteTrue, moms can be mean...but it's what gets the job done properly. And someday, they'll thank us mean moms :D
Happy Mother's Day and happy WS!
Children, emmm, they are so small, and during their growing years, perhaps cannot see beyond what we parents can. I wish sometimes I can put each on my shoulder.
ReplyDeleteaiyo, poor james!
ReplyDeleteis that call child abuse ah?