Don't Waste My Time!

This is another true story of a very nice gentleman who has a professional job saving lives, I think he 'killed' some too. hahaha......

In his mid-thirties, pleasant-looking, very health conscious (guarantee no illness), good-temperament, humourous, caring..... aaahhhh, a woman's dream partner. But he is divorced with a kid. Well, I have no problem with that and so do many other friends.

Lately he is unhappy and moody. After much prodding, he reveals he is seeing someone. And they have been seeing each other for more than two years. More than a year ago, he has proposed to her and until today she is still considering. What!?

Talk about wasting time!

Yes, he got a earful from me. He really wants to get married again. He's not getting any younger and his young kid is growing up. During the young child's growing years, there was no mother by his side to love and care for him. Now that the child is older, he might resist having another member sharing his Dad's love. And when the siblings come, I can foresee the problems.

Ok, the problem with this girl who is 30, is the fact that my friend is a divorcee and with a child. But she knew this before cruising into this relationship. So now she is giving excuses like, "My family objects." "I need to ask my mother." "I need 2 months to consider." And her 2 months gets to be renewed at every due date! And the poor man just lets her. *slaps my forehead and kicks him *

My advice to him is : While she is still yo-yoing, he should get to know more ladies. It's not that he is short of admirers. He has a queue of them. I find that the girl is wasting not only her time but the time of others. She has no right to do that to this gentleman. A simple 'Yes' or 'No' and then let's get on with life!

I was inquisitive and asked if they had an intimate realtionship. He hasn't 'makan' her yet! fuiyoh!

Why do we have such nice men in our midst? Need to kick them hard sometimes. aiyooo.... I really cannot tahan (tolerate). My son liddat, I'll strangle him!