Most people would think she's a bully. Are you, Judy? hehehe.... Well, I'm sure she loves her hubby as much as he loves her. And how they want to live their married life is none of my or any one's business. That is a very wonderful husband she has and she's the envy of many wives. I'm sure her hubby is so willing to be her slave because she has a certain X factor. Go ask her for the secret.
Now, I have to say something hurtful. The problem with ECL is: I am a wet blanket and I can't help not holding my tongue. hehe..... If my son wants to marry a wife who needs to be pampered all the time and cannot do housework. No way I'm allowing him to marry her.
I don't get along well with my 2 younger brothers' wives. They are lazy and ill-disciplined. They don't come from rich families but they are so pampered, they don't do any housework. After a hard day's work, my brothers have to mop the floor, wash the clothes, feed and bath the kids. And to think we were always fighting over whose turn to mop the floor and wash the dishes when we were young and single.
No homecooked meals at home! Always packed dinners and the weekend dinners at my Mom's house. One of my sister-in-law plays mahjong - everyday, while the other loves to go shopping and travelling. When women get married, family should come first, there are dependants now.
It's such a pity. Both my brothers are good-looking and successful. Destiny plays cruel games sometimes, their wives are plain Janes and not well-educated. One of my brothers is a graduate. I have asked them to get a divorce (yup... so bad of me) but they won't because of the young kids. My brothers are good catches.
Now, you would think my hubby is another aggrieved husband. I really do look and sound the Bully, don't I!?
Surprise! Surprise! I'm actually a traditional Asian woman despite my open views and modern looks. I cook and serve my husband his meals. He doesn't do much housework in the house. I make sure his clothes is washed and nicely ironed to look presentable in front of his clients, business associates and friends. In Asia, it's the face thingy.
The only time he's turned into a
............. /to be continued.