Quest for Superman

I have many girlfriends who are of or over marriageable age. They are highly educated, independant, hold very good jobs or own their own businesses. Some are so beautiful, even I want to bed them. So what's keeping them from getting hitched?

Maybe their good qualifications and qualities they possess are their problems. Too high standards for the men, probably. Are they picky? I bet.

They want a man who can entertain them, make them laugh -be humourous but not always or else can marry a clown. Remember all important dates. Surprise them on Valentines' Day, their birthdays, anniversaries, occasionally...etc. Serenade them with songs or musical instruments like piano, guitars or flute! Can read their mind, know when to shut up, when to speak. Cannot interfere with their career, they must have the freedom to do what they want. Not willing to go out with guys who travel a lot. Guys must keep them company at any available time and plan the activities.....etc. My eyebrows go higher at every thing they name, I think my eyebrows have disappeared into my hairline. hehehe...

Come on lah! Get a TV set with all the sound systems and get connected to the internet too, if you want to be entertained. Oh, I'll talk about the SEX part next post.

What kind of guy do women really want? It’s been a hot topic for as long as I can remember and incredibly annoying. Should men change from who they are to someone they’re not, just so they could have legal sex? And believe you me, women tend to develop more frequent headaches when they get married. Ask the married men. hahaha.....

To women who always make simple things look complicated, the men are often canned, conformed or classified into: the good (好男人 ), the bad (坏男人), the he-man (大男人) and the new-man (新男人).

The good man is responsible, loving, gentle, respect their elders, obedient - good husband material. They are also honest but a little boring though. Well, there's no perfect man!

The bad man is usually a great flirt, irresponsible, funloving and exciting. He seldom rejects any girl. This man is like a cigarette, you know it is harmful to your health and yet you cannot keep away from it. Girls and women flock to such men. They are addictive.

The he-man was popular once, but hey, with women getting more educated and self-reliant, they no longer need a man who knows how to repair the leaks and change the lightbulbs. Nowadays, women don't like the man giving orders in the house.

The new-man is also called Sensitive New Age Guy (SNAG), they are the women's new best friends. These sensitive and caring guys, can be effeminate. They cook, wash, clean, shop ... they even excel in such chores!

No matter what categories of men we have, many women would ultimately choose the good man to be with, for the rest of their life. A good man is like an Oscar award actor, his versatility as a husband, son, boss, colleague, lover - in the office, in his parents' house, at dinner parties, even in his own bed, he's always changing his roles. He's Superman - the multi-function guy!

Guys, which category are you?

And gals, which category are your bf or hubby?

My hubby belongs to the good-man. Actually I prefer the bad-man. hahaha....

haiz.....